Shall I read to them some lines I read about infertility?
Tell them they are created this way for a special purpose-for the children that will need a home.
Emphasis that they were created not "broken"
Would it be too difficult to hear that there is a birth mother out there who is grieving too, over the choices she's made and the difficult journey ahead?
Is it too soon to hear that this is likely not the end of their grieving. If they ever experience a failed adoption they will grieve their infertility all over again? They will grieve as if over the death of a child that will never be a part of their family
They may never had that large family, or have children with your husband's red hair.
One thing I think I should teach a class is to tell people what you need. Tell people if you need space, time, understanding, appropriate language concerning adoption, a hug. Well intentioned people will say some unwittingly hurtful things. Be prepared to teach others how to be sensitive to your situation.
Those are my only thoughts for now. Hopefully I can fill an hour and a half class with it.
